Christianity Out From Behind the Curtain

What many Christians really believe,
as seen in their own words

By Brian Elroy McKinley

What makes the United States a great country is that its citizens help run it. Our voice is heard in the voting booth. Our Free Press keeps us on our toes. I can openly criticize my government, and you need not agree with me. Although this makes many people uncomfortable, it is our greatest strength.

We only need look at the former Soviet Union or, particularly, to the former states of Yugoslavia to see the danger of stifling public debate. These countries promoted themselves as places of harmonious living. They suppressed public dissent. They claimed the world would think badly of them should they argue among themselves. But beneath their polished veneer latent mistrust, anger, and disagreement festered without an outlet.

When finally the walls fell and as these communities thawed from the deep chill of Communism, the visible result of suppression was anger, violence and power struggle. Indeed, the notion that a lack of internal debate is healthy is loudly contradicted by our own headlines from Bosnia.

But we realized this even before the fall of Communism. During the rein of the Communist Party in the USSR, only those suppressing dissent thought it was a good thing. Those of us watching from the outside laughed at the ridiculous notion that there were no internal conflicts. In fact, it only made us distrust their declarations as propaganda.

And yet, many of the same people who publicly condemned suppression of dissent in the Soviet Union openly call for it in their churches and places of worship.

When I wrote the articles, "Why Focus on the Family is of the Devil" and "Why Abortion is Biblical" I set out to make an argument against the type of leadership and biblical understanding we have in the Christian community. I expected many people would disagree with me, but I never expected how strong the reaction would be. I also did not realize how far suppression had permeated the ranks of the faithful.

Over and over I was lambasted for "attacking" other Christians. I was asked to remove my article. I was told that my public disagreement with Dobson and company would make the faith look bad. I was told I was causing people to reject the faith and causing weak Christians to falter. I was even accused of splitting Christianity in two. Responses like this one were quite common:

"I don't see a benefit in airing Christianity's dirty laundry in public. It seems to me that this is confusing to new Christians and does harm to the spreading of the Gospel."
While I seriously doubt I have that kind of power, it's fascinating to consider why readers would say such things. It is to that question, then, that I put forth the following expose.

For indeed modern Christianity seems to abhor dissent, pushing, instead, to be viewed as harmonious and without conflict. Christians are not really admonished to read the Bible for themselves, but rather are taught to interpret it according to set standards -- standards set by those vying for leadership within the greater Christian community. You will see that more people than not now claim we need to know "how" to read the Bible, as if it cannot stand on its own.

Modern Christianity is so concerned with showing a united front that a host of misunderstandings and outright evils are ignored for the sake of unity. A host of disagreements are suppressed. Differing perspectives are suspect. And dissent is evil. You only need read the excerpts from the "Letters to the Editor" page that are directed at me personally to see these attitudes in full bloom.

Those excerpts can be found in my expose entitled, " In the Name of Love: verbal reactions to the article on 'Why Focus on the Family is of the Devil.'"

The unfortunate side effects of trying to appear unified are grave. One, non-Christians write us off as phony the same way we wrote off the Soviet Union. They easily see through the facade and instead see us trying to cover up our differences -- which is inherently dishonest. Two, people don't really know why they believe what they believe. We have been taught to follow Christian authority -- not to publicly question -- and to read the Bible as our leaders tell us to read it. Thus we get comments like this one when one of us actually points out things in the Bible that run counter to the Culture of Christianity we've created:

"What you're getting out of your bible, compared to what I'm getting out of my bible, I really just cannot fathom the contrast."
But don't just take my word for it. The following are excerpts from the letters I've received. In them you'll find that we not only disagree on many topics related to our faith, but we also tend to believe that everyone else believes as we do. You'll also see Christians simply repeating what they have heard, often quoting the Bible inaccurately. This is precisely why we SHOULD be airing our dirty laundry. We need wholehearted and honest debate on what we really believe and why.

Some readers claim we must only use the Bible:
  • Adding or subtracting from the word of God as given in the 66 books, is subject to Damnation.

  • Do you have the ability to read the original languages? Maybe you should get help from someone who can because many of your incredible leaps of deduction would immediately fall to pieces.

  • Read your Bible and not your heart for I fear it is dark and foolish!
  • Most readers claim we must know how to interpret the Bible or that we should use other sources for inspiration:
  • A Christian must use the spirit of discernment to decide if a leader is truly a man of God.

  • Be sure that prayer came before Scripture; Adam and Eve talked and walked with God long before the Bible was published.

  • Did you ask [God] if you ought to be posting these articles? What did He say?

  • I don't need the Bible, Focus on the Family, or you to help me determine the right or wrong of these arguments. My own God given morals and logical sense are enough to know that abortion, porn and euthanasia are wrong.

  • The Didache, which is reliably dated to the period between 80 and 120 ad, is essentially a manual for converts that addresses questions about the meaning of Christian faith and life. Very early in the document it presents two ways, the way of life and the way of death. Abortion in clearly and unambiguously listed as among the practices that are forbidden to Christians. From that base the Christian community has, until the latter half of this century, with few exceptions viewed abortion as a grave moral trespass, lawful only in the extreme case of a mother's life.

  • I drank alcohol at the time I was saved (October of '88). I struggled with this because there are several references in the bible that supported drinking and several that condemned it, afterall I was a "social" drinker. I sought God's own personal view on this subject ten months. I told Him I was confused, here you say drinking is o.k., but here you say not to let one drop enter your body, here you say to take it if your depressed, and so on. I searched God's heart diligently on this matter. Then o ne night in August of '89, I sat down with a friend and a six-pack of beer. I popped the top and took one sip. God spoke to me "Make that your last drink". These were His exact words and I'll never forget them. I gave that beer to my friend and I have not had an alcoholic beverage since.

  • I will pray for you to even think that the sanctity of life could be explained away by a humanistic few of scripture.

  • I wouldn't attempt to try to back up my views on abortion with Scripture. I'm afraid any attempt to do so will only lead one to interpret verses in a way which supports pre-conceived ideas.

  • If you wish to interpret Scripture, I suggest you start by asking the Holy Spirit for guidance.

  • It also amazes me that the issue of abortion must be proven with the Bible. Doesn't your own sense of humanity and the desire to live create a natural doctrine against the choice of abortion?

  • Next time you pick up THE BOOK pray for an open mind and true leading by the Holy Spirit not just text to misuse to fulfill your own predetermined notions.

  • None of us need theological training when we have the Spirit of God to teach and lead us into all righteousness

  • One cannot ignore the Bible in those areas where it is clearly speaking without allegory.

  • Prayer if done genuinely, will help open your eyes to the truth.

  • This is why the Christian faith believes so strongly against abortion. Sure we can quote scripture till we are blue in the face, but a non-believer sees scripture as nothing than a book.

  • You cannot know the truth that you cannot understand. The Holy spirit works in a man's life, but ONLY God's Elect, those predestined by Him, for His purpose.

  • You cannot receive scripture the way it was intended as loving encouragement, exhortation, rebuke, etc. etc., unless you are willing to submit to it as your Master.

  • You need to understand what the WORD really means, not what you think it means.

  • You quote Scripture, but you don't know how to interpret it. If you want to touch God, then you must pray and do His will.

  • You seem to know the Bible as a book, but do you know the author PERSONALLY? Is Christ in your heart or in your mind?

  • Your argument lacks biblical support because God does not support sin!
  • Readers showed many different interpretations of the Bible:

    On being a Christian.......

  • The difference between a non believer and a believer is not that one sins and the other has it all under control. It's that one is not even trying to seek God, and the other one is, by God's help.

  • There is more to being a Christian than 'deciding' to be one. You just don't decide one day to be a Christian and then decide to change your behavior.

  • We must remember that simply knowing Jesus is the Christ, and acknowledging that he is the Son of Man and the Son of God is not by itself sufficient to salvation.

  • We must submit to him, through the omnipresent Holy Spirit, and allow him to rule our lives. Such lives are without sin, as a result.

  • Changing our behavior is part of being regenerated. We realize what pond scum we are, in other words road pizza, incapable of coming to God without his due calling.

  • I believe He is my Lord and Savior. I also believe I am a worthless sinner and I am so thankful that He has forgiven my sins. But I am still worthless and for that very reason I consider myself blessed.

  • The Adversary has the power of death.

  • Some [Christians] do not take but a slight breeze but to push in one direction. I shall pray that this particular article will be unable to help Satan's cause.

  • If any person or organization can push you out of the Kingdom of God you were never in it.

  • The devil can not destroy faith. Faith is a gift from God which the devil has no authority. Faith is not something we achieve ourselves, faith is given. Once faith is given from God, it is here to stay. Faith is not relative, its absolute.

  • When I talk with other Christians I am not sharing openly with them my failures --- that's between me and God.
  • About Religious Leaders.......
  • Dobson and crew are a perfect example of crossless Christianity. Have you noticed how much they sell "Christian" rock and other superficial Babylon garbage. I guess you have to have something to give people in place of true Holy Ghost Power.

  • A great deal of the material that you hear on Evangelical Christian TV and radio, and on Family News is Focus relates to human sexuality. Yet I can only remember Jesus being quoted once on the topic: when he told the woman adulterer to go and sin no more.

  • I don't think Christ would like us putting down others in such a negative way. I know Christ put down the Pharisees but that was totally the Word of God.

  • Even Paul encouraged his readers to pattern their lives after his.

  • IF YOU'VE EVER READ THE SCRIPTURES YOU WILL FIND THAT THOSE AT 'FOCUS' FOLLOW IT WORD FOR WORD. MAYBE YOU SHOULD FOLLOW THEIR EXAMPLE.

  • It is our individual responsibility to hold them accountable by validating what they say against what is in the Bible.

  • Remember, beware when all men speak well of you.

  • We all stand in danger of following false doctrines, the doctrines of demons who are infinitely wiser (as serpents) than are we human babies. After all, demons have had eons to develop their schemes and to gather useful knowledge to gain the advantage over us.
  • About Abortion.......
  • Doesn't the Bible teach that if a man should cause a pregnant woman to lose her child the punishment is death? (I'll let you look it up since you need the extra time in the scriptures, IMHO.) And by logic, if the Bible teaches that the punishment for the "death" of an unborn child is death, given the Old Testament principle "an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth, then isn't the UNBORN child ALIVE?

  • In the old testament, I don't know where, a man is not put to death if he hits a woman and kills an unborn fetus. It's not considered murder. An unborn fetus has not accepted Jesus as its savior, so, it is not filled with the spirit. Once a baby is born, it is covered by it's parent's confession of Jesus as it's savior until it is old enough to either reject Jesus or accept Jesus.

  • Have you not read that God hates the shedding of innocent blood? That He knew you before you were in the womb? You be real careful because by leading anyone astray, even to doubt the love of God for the unborn, you are bringing a high heap of trouble on yourself!

  • Either way the poor child is resting in Gods arms. So therefore, the women have the choice to do what they please.

  • God did give us a choice to chose what we want to do. Another words he gave us a free will, a free will to choose what we think is best for ourselves.

  • I see Paul in Romans 1:31(KJV) warning the Church of a day when those "without natural affection" would rise up. One of the greatest natural affections a human can have is love towards a child, yet people forsake that affection today for a choice.

  • I would encourage you to read Leviticus where scripture specifically states that, "life is in the blood." Needless to write, there is blood in an unborn child.

  • If I practiced abortion as a means of birth control, I would similarly fear for my eternal soul.

  • That child *does* get to be with God in Heaven as far as I can tell/guess, but the blessing on the child of Heaven does not translate into a blessing on the killer.

  • The bible doesn't condemn or support *abortion* per se, but it does condemn the taking of human life, especially the life of the poor, the weak, the defenseless, and the needy (omitting abortion per se).

  • The Bible doesn't specifically address abortion, probably because such an act was unthinkable to a population that equated progeny with a blessing by God. The Mosaic law does address the case of a pregnant woman who miscarries after being struck, but that's about it.

  • What about the scripture that states that the Lord hates hands that shed innocent blood. If the fetus doesn't represent innocent blood, I don't know what does.

  • You shall never murder.

  • Many murders happened in the BIBLE that were not ordered by God. On the other hand God sent two men against 20 men and those 20 were slain. (This was ordered by GOD.)

  • All that murdered in the BIBLE where either killed or punished by GOD
  • About Homosexuality.......
  • Homosexuality: It says right there in any bible thats is absolutely wrong ! There's no two sides to that issue. There are plenty of examples of God striking back at people who carried out that lifestyle (floods).

  • Were I a practicing homosexual, I would live in terror of the Bible and of God's judgment.
  • On Interpreting Scripture.......
  • I was stunned. I could not believe that one who implies that he is a Christian would hold such contrary views with what is clearly written in the Bible.

  • Christianity is not in the Sermon on the Mount.

  • God did turn his back on people at different times throughout history.

  • I was also distressed this week when I heard of people involved in healthy, loving courtships and engagements, avoiding sexual activity with their committed partners at all costs, in order to meet God's perceived will. I wonder what God's will really was for them!

  • Psalms was written in a time much different than ours. The most important part of the Bible is the many parts showing and telling us that Jesus' blood was shed to take away our sins

  • Satan can take, and has been given the OK to do so by God, anything and use it to further his cause.

  • We are commanded to pray. That's it, pray.
  • Some readers took it upon themselves to judge my faith in God:
  • A true Christian does not speak as you are.

  • According to the Bible (I'm sure you already know this) anything that you do that causes your brother to sin is a sin. It also states that "anything not based on faith is sin" Your message of righteousness and wisdom is violating both of these passages. You are causing others to doubt their faith.

  • From one no less of a sinner than you but saved by His Grace, to another sinner working overtime to justify his sin: Turn around and join His family! I love you,

  • I pray for you, and I sincerely hope that you yourself have truly found Christ as your Savior; He obviously still has work to do on your weak mind

  • I sense that you are in the grip of some type of spiritual bondage. Please seek help from a Pastor who knows the scriptures and that you think you can trust.

  • I will not choose to call you names or act in a defamatory manner, but I must say that your so called "view", which you are entitled to, on the matter of abortion is completely disgraceful to the Christian faith. All you are doing is trying to turn our own fellow believers from the truth.

  • I will try to remember to pray for you Elroy.

  • I wrote to you because the Holy spirit grieved.

  • I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you to be a brother in Christ and will therefore pray for you and ask God to guide you and bless you.

    It is clear to me that you have unconfessed sin and no savior to confess it to.

  • It is evident from the handful of essays I have read that you have no idea what it means to be a born again child of God.

  • May our God, the Lord of hosts have mercy on your tortured soul. We will be praying for you to this end.

  • Remove and repent of your abortion article.

  • Satan has blinded YOU. May God have mercy on your soul.

  • Stop writing until you seek God's will for yourself in prayer. Perhaps he will reinstate you as a more perfect vessel. Perhaps not.

  • You are destined for eternity in hell, unfortunately.

  • You have made a bold step in putting your judgment on the world wide web for all to see. It makes it that much harder to apologize when God finally calls you to do it.

  • You have your own god and it is not Christ. You have only the image of God to play with, worship and mentally masturbate. You're not serious about God and His Word, you're scheming against Him and His people.
  • I suppose from all this I could deduct that in order to read my Bible I must have "the ability to read the original languages," I must "pray for an open mind and true leading," and I must only use "those areas where it is clearly speaking without allegory." I guess the Bible doesn't really stand by itself as the Word of God; it must be interpreted correctly in order to be followed.

    Likewise, there are some parts of the Bible that are more God's Word than others since "the most important part of the Bible" only has to do with Christ. But then I "cannot know the truth" because I am not one of "God's Elect, those predestined by Him, for His purpose."

    That must be why "none of us need theological training" and why I shouldn't "attempt to try to back up my views on abortion with Scripture."

    But heck, we don't "need the Bible" to help us "determine the right or wrong" when we have "The Didache," despite the fact that "adding or subtracting from the word of God as given in the 66 books, is subject to Damnation." I guess all Catholics are damned since they have more books in their Bible.

    I found that some Christians "take but a slight breeze but to push in one direction," even though "if any person or organization can push you out of the Kingdom of God you were never in it." I learned that "the devil can not destroy fait h" but I guess his servants can because "we all stand in danger of following false doctrines, the doctrines of demons who are infinitely wiser than are we" are.

    I learned that the "Bible teaches that the punishment for the 'death' of an unborn child is death," or was it "a man is not put to death if he hits a woman and kills an unborn fetus." (The second one is more accurate.) It was also pointed out that, "there is blood in an unborn child" and that "life is in the blood" so that means the unborn child is alive and should not be removed. I suppose I better not get my tonsils out either, since there's blood in them too.

    Through this process we clarified that we "shall never murder" unless it's "ordered by GOD" but even then we might be "killed or punished by GOD," but then only if we "shed innocent blood," whatever that means. We also learned that one of the "examples of God striking back at" homosexuals was by "floods." I guess Noah's family were the only heterosexuals of his day.

    I rejoiced that some believers would "try to remember to pray" for me since they assumed me "to be a brother in Christ." Heaven help me if they assume I'm not a brother in Christ. I might not get any prayers at all.

    Through all of this what I learned most was that we desperately need to openly and publicly debate the issues that divide us. We need to be honest with ourselves and the rest of the world rather than hide behind the veneer of unity and good feelings. We n eed to stop pretending that we all agree and that we all know how to interpret the Bible correctly. We need to move away from the attitude represented in this guy's thoughts:

    "You can disagree and argue with this as much as you would like, but it is Truth and you cannot overcome that no matter how much you debate it."
    If truth is indeed truth then it can withstand debate. If Dobson is really working for God, then he can withstand attack. If Abortion is truly condemned in the Bible, then searching the Bible for all possible understandings of it cannot produce negative results. And if people truly know why they believe what they believe, then nothing I say or do will detract from their faith.

    And when we start to allow dissent and free debate, when we stop worrying about being seen as "against" the sanctity of our religious institutions and for true understanding of God's intentions in this world, even if they disagree with our dogmas and personal doctrines, then non-believers may start seeing us as real people with a real faith rather than plastic Christians hiding behind smiling faces and forced unity.

    About the Author

    Why Focus on the Family is of the Devil

    A Christian Perspective

    In the Name of Love

    Verbal reactions to the articles on "Why Focus on the Family is of the Devil" and "Why Abortion is Biblical"

    James Dobson: Focusing on Himself

    How James Dobson, leader of Focus on the Family, sets himself up as the moral authority of the nation -- taken from his own words and from other media reports

    To Confess or Not to Confess

    A response to the assertion that the leaders at Focus on the Family actually confess their failures to their followers.

    Related Writings

    Family Values: a biblical view
    Terrorism as a Means of Self-actualization
    Three Easy Steps to Losing Your Faith
    The Unofficial Eleventh Commandment
    Breaking Windows in the House of God
    The Fascism of Modern Churches
    Why Abortion is Biblical

    Email: el@elroy.com

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